The bible says to know what is a true man is, you need look no further than the life JESUS CHRIST. A true man, like JESUS, is obedient to the Father's will and is about His Father's business Hebrews 10:19 He willbe a man of prayer an a man of love and sacrifice. Now let me say this if you are a man you must take responsibility for yourself have your own place and a job to provide for yourself and your family. We are were raised differently but that is no excuse to be with someone who has provided you for over 21 years of living. We must teach our children to be independent and thrive for success.